BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 12:29 AM on Tuesday, May 5th, 2026
Hope you had a wonderful day! 
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:39 PM on Tuesday, May 5th, 2026
Happy birthday!
Hot chocolate ... great choice!
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
d-day - 12/22/2010 Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 8:32 PM on Tuesday, May 5th, 2026
Happy birthday, - hope you are thriving out there!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 9:49 PM on Thursday, May 7th, 2026
Happy Birthday, Chili!! Hope you had a great one.
BH(me)72(now); XWW 64; M 42 yrsDDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW 4 years; "dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, liesSeparated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 5:57 PM on Friday, May 8th, 2026
Happy Birthday Chili! Hopefully you spent it listening to some amazing music!
Married: 28 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 7:18 PM on Friday, May 8th, 2026
How wonderful is this....all my old running buddies showed up for the hot cake take (thanks Broken). I'm not around SI much outside of Christmas card exchange, because I think I can say with confidence I've finally eased into a most sweet stage of life. Hope you're all out there taking good care of yourself and doing brilliant things. You're the best of the best.
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
